Dinning etiquette -- it all begins with the invitation.
The second part of our series covers a very basic part to a dining engagement -- the invitation. If you didn’t catch part 1 you can read it here: Dining Etiquette -- The Basics.
Not every dining event comes with a formal written invitation, many times the invitation is verbal and sometimes in the form a email (or text). However, especially when you are invited to someone’s home, you should still extend certain courtesies to your host -- she will be very appreciative.
You don’t need to make it a big deal, but your hostess will appreciate your politeness and it will also convey your gratitude for being invited and the work she is putting into organizing the event. Basically there are 5 key points to remember when you are invited to a dining event.
5 key points regarding the invitation:
1. Make note of who the invitation is addressed to. If it’s only addressed to ‘you’, don’t ask if you could bring a guest.
2. Notice when you need to RSVP by, and RSVP by that date.
3. When you’re RSVP-ing communicate any special needs you have -- ie. allergies, etc.
4. Record the time and date of the event in your calendar, set an alarm with the entry if you need to.
5. Wear the proper attire. If you’re in doubt, ask the hostess to be sure.
That’s it, pretty easy huh? Five steps and you’ve mastered the etiquette of proper response to an invitation! The video below goes over the five point a little more, so check it out.
Thanks for reading — Theresa
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